The Referral Dating

What Makes "The Referral" Unique

Making Connecting A True Experience

The Referral flips the script on modern dating.
In a world where dating often starts with surface-level attraction, we begin with what truly matters: character, values, and faith.

Unlike dating apps that prioritize looks and algorithms, The Referral levels the playing field by concealing physical appearance until the in-person event. The match is made by the male trusted friend—not based on photos, but on who they believes aligns with their friend’s morals, principles, and long-term compatibility.

Once matched, both individuals meet for the first time at our exclusive, intentionally designed event. The evening includes dinner, engaging activities, and meaningful conversation. It’s not just another singles mixer—it’s a curated environment where people arrive already aligned in purpose and intention.

No endless messaging. No ghosting. No wondering “what if.”
Just clarity, connection, and the kind of intentional dating experience modern platforms rarely offer.

This isn’t about chemistry over text or scrolling through profiles. It’s about creating a space for authentic connection—with no pressure and no regrets. Just two people, grounded in faith, deciding if they want to move forward—together.

Are you ready to put your faith to the test?

5 Reasons The Referral Is The Answer

1. No More DM Dead Ends

3. Say Goodbye To Analysis Paralysis

2. Making Dating Approachable Again

You’ve matched, but the convo dies—or worse, never takes off. This event moves you past the digital chatter and into real-life interaction to see if the vibe actually matches the profile.

2. Making Dating Approachable Again

3. Say Goodbye To Analysis Paralysis

2. Making Dating Approachable Again

Whether you’re out of practice or just tired of awkward intros, this event removes the pressure and helps you meet others in a relaxed, intentional way. No apps, no weird pick-up lines—just real people, real conversations.

3. Say Goodbye To Analysis Paralysis

Too many options, too many what-ifs? We simplify things. The referrer (the men trusted friend) helps narrow the field —so you spend less time guessing and more time experiencing.

4. Know Where You Stand, Instantly

3. Say Goodbye To Analysis Paralysis

No more days of overthinking how the date went. With our envelope exchange system, you’ll know right away if your match is open to meeting again. No ghosting. No mind games. Just clarity.

5. No Pressure, Just Possibility

4. Know Where You Stand, Instantly

5. No Pressure, Just Possibility

This isn’t about finding “The One” in a night. It’s about opening the door to what could be. Think of it as a guided experience that takes the pressure off and puts connection first.

What You And Your Match Can Look Forward To...

A Carefully Chosen Match

Mixer Hour To Break The Ice

Your date for the evening has already been thoughtfully selected. No guessing, no swiping, no awkward surprises. Just a meaningful introduction backed by real insight.

Mixer Hour To Break The Ice

Ease into the evening with a relaxed, social hour designed to spark light-hearted interactions—not just with your match, but with other attendees and their matches too. It’s a chance to warm up, laugh, mingle, and let the night unfold naturally.

A Delicious 2-Course Dinner

Mixer Hour To Break The Ice

A Delicious 2-Course Dinner

Enjoy a chef-crafted meal with your match, choosing from flavorful options like chicken, fish, steak, or veggie pasta. End your meal on a high note with a decadent dessert. it’s the perfect way to keep the conversation going.

Fun, Intentional Activities

Ready To Experience A Different Kind Of Connection?

A Delicious 2-Course Dinner

throughout the evening, engaging activities will keep the energy light and lively. These moments are designed to spark real conversation, reveal personality, and help you connect beyond surface level.

The Reveal

Ready To Experience A Different Kind Of Connection?

Was There a Spark? At the end of the evening, you’ll get to find out if the connection was mutual. This private moment will let you know if both of you are a match and felt the vibe and are open to taking the next step—no pressure, just clarity.

Ready To Experience A Different Kind Of Connection?

If you’re looking for something real, meaningful, and thoughtfully curated—this is your chance. Spots are limited. Reserve yours now and let the evening unfold. Our community of like-minded singles are waiting for you.

What's In It for Me?

Clarity

Know if there’s real chemistry, without wasting weeks texting or wondering. You’ll leave with a clear sense of who you vibe with (and who you don’t).

Confidence

Get out of your head and into an experience that helps you date better, not harder. No awkward setups. No overthinking.

Connections

Meet real people who actually want to connect, NO fake Profiles, no Catfish, no Swiping .

insight

With honest feedback and structured reflection, you’ll learn more about what you want, need, and enjoy in a partner.

Momentum

Stop feeling stuck. This experience helps you move forward—whether it’s your first time dating again or you’re tired of the same old cycle. Even if it's not a love match, you gain experience and confidence to do it better next time.

Possibility

You may just meet someone who’s aligned with your heart, energy, and future. If not, you’ll still walk away having grown—and enjoyed yourself.

Ticket Tier Options For The Referral

Frequently Asked Questions

Please reach us at Info@thereferraldating.com if you cannot find an answer to your question.

Will the guy referrer be at the event?

No, the guy's referrer will not be at the event. They will choose prior to the event.

Will there be more women then men at the event?

No, only those who are matched will be at the event.

Will matches be selected at the event?

No, matches are selected a week in advance.

What if I don't like my match

This is possible. At the end of the night you will be able to let them know in a private way that you are not interested. They will see your response when you two leave the event.

Can I pay for the event at the door?

No, all payments for the event are due 72hrs prior to the event date through Eventbrite to attend the event.

Does signing up guarantee me a match?

All male participants will be matched with someone at each event. However, we can not guarantee that all Female participants will be matched for an event. The more she allows her profile to be seen, the higher the changes.

What if my match doesn't show up

We send a confirmation email 24 hours before the event to ensure all matched participants are able to attend. If, for any reason, your match is unable to make it, we will notify you promptly and credit your ticket toward a future event. We kindly ask all attendees to register only if they are confident in their ability to attend, as each match is thoughtfully prepared and every seat matters. Your consideration helps us create a meaningful experience for everyone involved.

Are there any refunds

All sales are final.

Disclaimer

The Referral is a curated social experience designed to help Christian singles connect through values-based matchmaking. While we take intentional steps to pair individuals based on shared morals, principles, and faith alignment, we do not guarantee romantic compatibility, relationship outcomes, or future connections.

By participating in this event, attendees acknowledge that all match selections are made by third-party friends based on limited personal information, and physical appearance will not be disclosed prior to the event. Each participant is responsible for their own behavior, choices, and interactions during and after the event.

The Referral organizers are not liable for any emotional, relational, or personal outcomes resulting from participation. We encourage all guests to engage respectfully and thoughtfully throughout the experience.

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A New Way For Believers To Date

What Makes "The Referral" Unique

Making Connecting A True Experience

Learn More At Our Mixer

If You Want To Experience Dating In A New Way.

The Referral: The Answer To Modern Dating For Believers

5 Reasons The Referral Is The Answer

1. No More DM Dead Ends

3. Say Goodbye To Analysis Paralysis

2. Making Dating Approachable Again

2. Making Dating Approachable Again

3. Say Goodbye To Analysis Paralysis

2. Making Dating Approachable Again

3. Say Goodbye To Analysis Paralysis

3. Say Goodbye To Analysis Paralysis

3. Say Goodbye To Analysis Paralysis

4. Know Where You Stand, Instantly

4. Know Where You Stand, Instantly

3. Say Goodbye To Analysis Paralysis

5. No Pressure, Just Possibility

4. Know Where You Stand, Instantly

5. No Pressure, Just Possibility

Learn More At Our Mixer

If You Want To Experience Dating In A New Way.

What You And Your Match Can Look Forward To...

A Carefully Chosen Match

Mixer Hour To Break The Ice

Mixer Hour To Break The Ice

Mixer Hour To Break The Ice

Mixer Hour To Break The Ice

Mixer Hour To Break The Ice

A Delicious 2-Course Dinner

Mixer Hour To Break The Ice

A Delicious 2-Course Dinner

Fun, Intentional Activities

Ready To Experience A Different Kind Of Connection?

A Delicious 2-Course Dinner

The Reveal

Ready To Experience A Different Kind Of Connection?

Ready To Experience A Different Kind Of Connection?

Ready To Experience A Different Kind Of Connection?

Ready To Experience A Different Kind Of Connection?

Ready To Experience A Different Kind Of Connection?

Learn More At Our Mixer

If You Want To Experience Dating In A New Way.

What's In It for Me?

Clarity

Confidence

Connections

insight

Momentum

Possibility

Ticket Tier Options For The Referral

Male Participants

Amount Of Profiles To Review

Amount Of Profiles To Review

Ticket To Main Event To Meet Your Match

Female Participants

Amount Of Views

Amount Of Views

Ticket To Main Event To Meet Your Match

Learn More At Our Mixer

If You Want To Experience Dating In A New Way.

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